Read Proverbs 26:1 – 16.
Each time we read a proverb about a wise person or a fool, we are given two
opportunities. First, we can apply the proverb to ourselves as a prod toward
future wisdom and a caution against future foolishness. Second, we can apply it
to those whom we know, giving us the ability to respond to them appropriately.
This section talks about our natural tendency to point out foolishness to the
foolish in the often-vain belief that the fool will immediately respond with wisdom.
Verses Four and Five make it clear that, while it is appropriate to speak
truth, it is often impractical. We are called to discernment in how we use
Proverbs. Consider the last time you
witnessed foolish behavior. How did you react? Did you admonish the fool? Do
you ignore it? What was the result? Would a different approach have led to
better results?
Read Proverbs 26:17 –
28. This passage deals in depth with the act of quarrelling. Various forms of
divisive speech are described, including gossip, deceit, insensitive joking,
false charm, and inappropriate involvement in others’ arguments. Some of us
find ourselves relishing disagreement. We only feel truly alive when we are
angry and we are anxious to immediately point out the wrongheaded thinking of
anyone nearby. Solomon points out again and again the foolishness of this lifestyle.
Not only does it consume and destroy our relationships, it ruins us eventually,
too. Consider the most recent argument or
strong disagreement that you’ve had. What was the topic? Was the offense
directed at you or did you adopt the offense of someone else? What could you
have done to defuse the situation in a healthy way?
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