Proverbs 23

Read Proverbs 23:1 – 8. This section is unusual in Proverbs. We’re given a string of warnings, describing in picturesque detail the appropriate behavior in one particular social setting, that of dining with someone of much greater influence than yourself. The reader is meant to picture herself as the guest of a king, sitting at his table, taking note of what is available, but restraining herself to what is put in front of her. The reader or diner is tested on several levels. On the surface, he is tested by the host to see if he is prone to overextending his reach. On another level, she is tested by the delicacies, to see if she is susceptible to being governed by her appetites. On the third level, he is tested by God, to see if he shows honor to those to whom honor is due. We are not a culture which values moderation or self-control. Yet, Proverbs and the bulk of Scripture give us a variety of reasons for their value. In which areas of life do you have more difficulty with moderation? Is it eating, drinking, shopping, sensuality, or attention? If you struggle in those areas, what do these verses say that can help you?

Read Proverbs 23:9 – 14. Verses Twelve through Fourteen speak of discipline. Many have taken them to be a biblical endorsement of corporal punishment of children. But, the Hebrew word translated “punish” in Verse Fourteen, literally means to “deliver the soul from Sheol or endless punishment,” meaning to teach and to correct. Even if you do not have children at home, there are younger believers around you whom you are responsible for training by your words and deeds. How are you teaching them?

Read Proverbs 23:15 – 21. These verses again remind the son that his actions bear consequences for his parents, that he can bring them bitterness or joy. What do your words and deeds bring to those who have “parented” you in the faith? Is there one person whom you might thank today for his or her faithfulness in helping you grow?

Read Proverbs 23:22 – 35. This final section reminds the reader of the hazards of infidelity and of excessive use of wine. In great detail, it describes the foggy, irrational thinking of one who drinks too much and how that practice can bring dark results.

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.