Proverbs 31

The book of Proverbs offers us many great lessons that can be applied to our everyday lives. We learn practical ways to gain godly wisdom, make good decisions, and live righteously.

Proverbs 31 is the last chapter in the book of Proverbs. It comprises sayings by King Lemuel taught to him by his mother. There is little known about King Lemeul and Agur. However, it is believed that both are from the kingdom of Massa located in northern Arabia. The name Lemuel means “devoted to God.”

The first nine verses in this chapter are lessons from a mother to a son on how a king should act. His mother warns him to not waste his strength on women that will ruin him. She urges him not to drink too much, and to speak up for the poor and helpless. We can all learn from these instructions.

There are three lessons here that we can all apply to our lives:

1) Be careful not to partner with those that will lead us down a path of ruin.

2) Be careful not to crave alcohol, that it will cloud our judgment.

3) Speak up for those that cannot speak for themselves.

Think about these three bits of advice and ask yourself how you can apply them to your life.

Verses 10-31 describe a woman of noble character. We have read quite a bit about women in the previous chapters of Proverbs. These verses describe a virtuous woman of strong character, outstanding abilities, and great compassion. She is trustworthy and brings good to others. She is an excellent wife, mother, and businesswoman. There is no mention of outward beauty. “Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.” (v. 30)

The virtuous woman described in Proverbs 31 sets the bar high. It is a picture of ideal womanhood. It is overwhelming to even think about trying to be like her. However, we are encouraged to think about ways become more virtuous in our daily walk. What can you change in your life to become more like the woman described in Proverbs 31?

Proverbs 30

Read Proverbs 30:1 – 14. These verses are described as the “sayings of Agur,” a person unknown to us from Scripture. Scholars have debated and disagreed on the possible identity of this wisdom writer. Is it Solomon using another name as he shifts to another style of writing? Is the entirety of Verse One, which contains a Hebrew palindrome, a word which is the same written backward as forward, with riddle-like qualities, meant to express that God’s wisdom is sometimes difficult to understand? Agur’s four questions clearly convey the truth that none of us can fully attain to God’s wisdom. Yet, even while raising questions, the writer gives us practical wisdom which we can apply immediately.

In Verse Eight, he writes, “Give me neither poverty or riches,” that he might not fall into pride or theft. Here, his prayer is for moderation in his circumstances. Do you ever pray for “just enough,” so that you can meet your real needs, but avoid extremes? If not, why do you pray for more than you really need?

Read Proverbs 30:15 – 31. This section contains five numerical sayings, each in the “three plus one” format. Each set of sayings reflects on observations from nature and ties them to human life. Sometimes, the connections between the items in the list are difficult to discern. Perhaps the riddle-like quality of the connection is meant to remind us how we can’t always discern God’s wisdom because our capacity to understand is limited to those aspects which God chooses to reveal.

Read Proverbs 30:32 – 33. The final two verses of this chapter are a warning against the foolishness of pride. In keeping with the riddle-like quality of the remainder of the chapter, these two verses remind us that God is the ultimate power and that humility is the only truly wise approach to the things of this life.

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 29

Read Proverbs 29:1 – 16. These sixteen proverbs speak frequently about cycles of thriving in the lives of the wicked and the righteous. Those who choose righteousness thrive in the long run, and bring good things to those around them. Those who choose wickedness may thrive, but bring hardship and death to those around them. One particular verse jumps out in the middle of the passage. “A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control.” We tend to believe our anger is justified and therefore worthy of being expressed. Yet, Solomon teaches us that only a fool gives full vent or expresses fully his anger. While many of us keep our anger corralled, so that it does not manifest itself physically, fewer of us restrain our tongues. We feel compelled to explain why we are right and the other person wrong. We feel compelled to enlist the sympathy of others. In so doing, we often become the fool. Think about the last time you were angry. Did you feel compelled to tell the person at whom you were angry? Did you rehearse your anger in your head, keeping it alive? Did your anger accomplish what you hoped? Is your relationship better because you spoke?

Read Proverbs 29:17 – 27. The underlying theme of this passage is discipline. Sons and servants are disciplined in the hope that they will make wise choices. Pampering the same will result in future foolishness. Verse 18 is best known in its King James version, “Where there is no vision, the people perish.” This verse is often quoted in political seasons as an admonition to candidates to lead better by casting good vision. But, this difficult-to-translate proverb has less to say about leadership than about discipline. The NIV translation gets it better, “Where there is no revelation, the people cast off restraint.” The word translated “revelation,” means a prophetic admonition from God, telling people to correct their behavior. In other words, if there is no discipline, people behave more and more foolishly. Consider your recent life. Is there an area in which you are “getting away with” a particular sin? Have you become more bold or careless in exercising it, because you haven’t been disciplined? Choose today to confess it and to turn away from that behavior before discipline comes.

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 28

Read Proverbs 28:1 – 12. These twelve proverbs call attention to the responsibility God presents to us of caring for the poor. Verse Three denounces anyone who oppresses them. Verses Four through Six call “evil” those who deny justice by forsaking the law, failing to understand justice, or living perversely. Verse Eight promises that those who charge high interest will have their own wealth taken from them. Each verse in this section contrasts those who take advantage of others, by wealth or power, with those who live righteously. We often dismiss the idea that proverbs such as these apply to us individually, because we don’t think of ourselves as wealthy, powerful, or lacking in justice. Yet, we live in a culture where the poorest have a higher standard of living that the majority of those living in other parts of world. If these proverbs aren’t directed at us, who are their intended recipients? Think about those with whom you interact regularly who are probably less-well-off than you, perhaps waiters, day laborers, part-time retail workers, janitors, etc. Do you withhold tips, bargain down a hourly rate to a level that can’t sustain a family, act rudely if you aren’t treated with “the-customer-is-always-right” deference, or demand better work that you yourself would give to the same task? Does your demand demonstrate justice? Are you in danger of being an “oppressor” yourself?

Read Proverbs 28:13 – 28. This passage deals with the fates of the wicked and the righteous. Which camp do you routinely identify yourself with? Verse Thirteen says, “He who conceals his sin does not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy.” How do you deal with your sin daily? Do you conceal it? Or, do you both confess it and renounce it, turning away wholeheartedly? Spend some time asking God to reveal any sins which you have concealed. Confess them, agreeing with God that they are sins, not just mistakes or oversights, but evil in the sight of God. Ask Him to help you renounce, not just making a quick promise to avoid them, but deliberately staying as far from tempting situations as possible.

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 27

Friends. Everyone has 'em, and hopefully at least one good one! I have come to realize that strong, godly friendships are rare. Looking at Proverbs, chapter 27 today, we read many things about friendships. Take a moment to read verse 6. In this context the wounds coming from a friend are not without necessity. The best kind of friend is one who loves you enough not to mind their own business, but who is willing to hurt your feelings for a moment for the sake of helping you turn away from sin. This idea leads us down to verse 17. We've all heard it before, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." Iron actually sharpens iron by shaving away any tiny bits that make the blade dull. We can sharpen each other by helping to get rid of the sin bits in our lives that make our lives spiritually dull.

Honest and wise counsel given between friends is invaluable. It is an amazing thing to be in a friendship that can endure and withstand correction from each other. It is incredible to feel safe and loved for who you are despite flaws and inconsistencies that can be found in your life. And a friendship where you are supported and held accountable is a treasure, and truly a picture of the relationship God desires with us. I have closely seen the effects of people trying to live their lives for God, but who have gone years without any solid friends in their lives to hold them accountable, encourage them in their faith, and call them out when necessary. The result is destruction. God desires for us to have friends who we can pursue holiness with.

In the past few years I have been blessed with friends who have become my family. I fully grasp verses 9 and 10 when they reveal the value of a friend's advice and closeness. Verse 9 says "the pleasantness of a friend springs from their heartfelt advice." Ask yourself this... are you concerned enough for your friends to endure the uncomfortable conversation that might be necessary when speaking truth into their lives? Are your intentions to build them up and help them pursue God more purely? Then looking to verse 10, are you making your life available to your friends as a family member would? Sometimes friendships are forced or just happen, but the ones that you invest yourself in and become famliy with are chosen.

God divinely places people along our path for us to love and live in community with. These relationships can be a beautiful picture of the gospel and they fulfill God's design for creation. When the body of believers comes together with unconditional love for each other, pushing each other further in holiness, and laying their lives down for another God is glorified. Challenge yourself to be a friend you'd want to have, call each other out in love, and be family to one another. 

Proverbs 26

Read Proverbs 26:1 – 16. Each time we read a proverb about a wise person or a fool, we are given two opportunities. First, we can apply the proverb to ourselves as a prod toward future wisdom and a caution against future foolishness. Second, we can apply it to those whom we know, giving us the ability to respond to them appropriately. This section talks about our natural tendency to point out foolishness to the foolish in the often-vain belief that the fool will immediately respond with wisdom. Verses Four and Five make it clear that, while it is appropriate to speak truth, it is often impractical. We are called to discernment in how we use Proverbs. Consider the last time you witnessed foolish behavior. How did you react? Did you admonish the fool? Do you ignore it? What was the result? Would a different approach have led to better results?

Read Proverbs 26:17 – 28. This passage deals in depth with the act of quarrelling. Various forms of divisive speech are described, including gossip, deceit, insensitive joking, false charm, and inappropriate involvement in others’ arguments. Some of us find ourselves relishing disagreement. We only feel truly alive when we are angry and we are anxious to immediately point out the wrongheaded thinking of anyone nearby. Solomon points out again and again the foolishness of this lifestyle. Not only does it consume and destroy our relationships, it ruins us eventually, too. Consider the most recent argument or strong disagreement that you’ve had. What was the topic? Was the offense directed at you or did you adopt the offense of someone else? What could you have done to defuse the situation in a healthy way?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life

Proverbs 25

Today we are introduced to what some call a book within a book. Proverbs 25 – 29 are provided by the scribes of King Hezekiah, but they are still cited as proverbs of Solomon. Verses 2-7 might be subtitled “On dealing with kings,” but the general principals apply well to those of us who will never be in the same room with a king.

Yet the majority of today’s reading centers on everyday life, from how to live in peace with our neighbors to dealing with our enemies. Patience and self-control are fantastic life tools. Are they in your tool box? Of course, the real question is not do you have them, but rather do you use them? I actually own a few tools that are still in their original package out on my work bench. They haven’t been used at all yet. Ironically, I’ve actually forgotten them when I needed to use them! How about you? The only effective tools are the ones we use.

Honey was one of the sweetest substances in the ancient world. It was viewed by many as a “good thing.” But too much of anything can be unhealthy, even to the point of making one vomit. I love the clarity of Solomon. No missing the point here. Solomon called for moderation. How often do we find something we really, really like and simply overload? Solomon extended his “don’t overdo it” admonition to other areas. It wasn’t simply about overeating.

Hezekiah’s scribes liked 21:9 so much they repeated it verbatim here in 25:24. Women tell us this is because men may not have been paying attention the first time.

Proverbs 24

Today’s reading could be summed up in two phrases: “anti-evil” and “pro-wisdom.” Solomon advises not to envy wicked people, and don’t even be around them. He discusses the rewards of wisdom and the penalties of evil.

As we read about the “it’s good for you” qualities of wisdom, we might start feeling about it like kids sometime feel about vegetables or a difficult to take medicine. Solomon puts wisdom in the proper perspective when he compares it to the sweetness of honey (vv 13-14). Wisdom is good in the sense that it is “sweet to the soul.” It’s not a dose of essential, tasteless, spiritual “vitamins,” but rather it is the honey of life.

Probably my favorite proverb of today’s reading is v. 26: “An honest answer is like a kiss on the lips.” Consider how refreshing, welcome, and appreciated a kiss on the lips can be. What a great verbal image for an honest answer! It is a kiss not just for the receiver, but the giver as well. An honest answer rewards both parties in a graceful way.

Although written by a king, many of the proverbs recognize the importance of diligence and hard work. Solomon ends with a story of what the fields and vineyards of the lazy and those who lack judgment. The story highlights that there is effort involved in establishing the foundations to provide for a family. If this is not done due to poor judgment or laziness, the result will be evident for all to see. Solomon cites a priority of concerns, instructing that one should not focus on personal comfort until first attending to an income stream (v. 27). He closes by admonishing us with how easy it is for poverty to creep into our lives. It is our action (or inaction) that may sometimes invite the bandit of poverty to come upon us.

Proverbs 23

Read Proverbs 23:1 – 8. This section is unusual in Proverbs. We’re given a string of warnings, describing in picturesque detail the appropriate behavior in one particular social setting, that of dining with someone of much greater influence than yourself. The reader is meant to picture herself as the guest of a king, sitting at his table, taking note of what is available, but restraining herself to what is put in front of her. The reader or diner is tested on several levels. On the surface, he is tested by the host to see if he is prone to overextending his reach. On another level, she is tested by the delicacies, to see if she is susceptible to being governed by her appetites. On the third level, he is tested by God, to see if he shows honor to those to whom honor is due. We are not a culture which values moderation or self-control. Yet, Proverbs and the bulk of Scripture give us a variety of reasons for their value. In which areas of life do you have more difficulty with moderation? Is it eating, drinking, shopping, sensuality, or attention? If you struggle in those areas, what do these verses say that can help you?

Read Proverbs 23:9 – 14. Verses Twelve through Fourteen speak of discipline. Many have taken them to be a biblical endorsement of corporal punishment of children. But, the Hebrew word translated “punish” in Verse Fourteen, literally means to “deliver the soul from Sheol or endless punishment,” meaning to teach and to correct. Even if you do not have children at home, there are younger believers around you whom you are responsible for training by your words and deeds. How are you teaching them?

Read Proverbs 23:15 – 21. These verses again remind the son that his actions bear consequences for his parents, that he can bring them bitterness or joy. What do your words and deeds bring to those who have “parented” you in the faith? Is there one person whom you might thank today for his or her faithfulness in helping you grow?

Read Proverbs 23:22 – 35. This final section reminds the reader of the hazards of infidelity and of excessive use of wine. In great detail, it describes the foggy, irrational thinking of one who drinks too much and how that practice can bring dark results.

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 22

Read Proverbs 22:1 – 7. In this section, we hear several verses about riches and consequences. Do we really believe that a good name is better than riches (v. 1)? Many of us pursue riches as a primary goal. Few pursue a good name apart from its value for obtaining other desirable things. Verse Two adds depth to Verse One. If both the rich and poor are created by God and answer to Him equally, how much value will a good name, presumably earned through wise living, have when our lives comes to an end? Consider the things you have used your last 24 hours to pursue? How much time did you invest in the pursuit of temporary things? How much in the pursuit of eternal things? What could you do to increase your pursuit of things such as a good name?

Verse Six may be the most well-known verse in Proverbs, with the possible exception of Proverbs 3:5 – 6. It is often treated as a promise. But wisdom sayings like those found in Proverbs are meant to describe what usually happens, not guarantee what will happen in every case. Verse Seven describes the natural relationship between a person who borrows money and the person who lends its. In what way have you found yourself to be a “servant” to those individuals or organizations to which you owe money?

Read Proverbs 22:8 – 16. A significant number of these verses deal with speech and judgment. Compare Verses Ten and Eleven. Mockers create strife, quarrels, and insults. Gracious speech creates friendship, even at high levels. Do you find yourself drawn more to those who are clever, witty, and critical in their speech, or those who speak graciously? Why do you think you are attracted to one kind of speech over the other? If the clever mockers are your favorite people, what do you gain from them?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 21

Read Proverbs 21:1 – 8. In this section, we hear several verses about the heart. The king’s heart is directed by the Lord (v. 1), who weighs his heart to determine his motives (v. 2). A proud heart is sinful (v. 4) and its accompanying behaviors lead to a person’s eventual downfall (v. 5 – 8). The “heart” in Hebrew Scripture refers to the innermost being, that center of motivation and understanding which drives each person. God looks at our hearts to determine who we really are and why we do what we do. Take a few moments to think honestly about why you have done the things you’ve done this week. What were your motives? How would God weigh your heart?

Read Proverbs 21:9 – 19. These verses focus on the most likely outcomes of certain actions and behaviors. Although no individual is promised the exact outcome which is shown in any one proverb, any individual can recognize the natural consequences that are likely to occur and can reorient himself or herself toward godly wisdom. The modern expression, “What goes around, comes around,” echoes in the back of our minds as we read about those who refuse to help the poor (v. 13), who subvert justice (v. 14), who refuses to work (v. 17), or who simply lives wickedly (v. 18). Although Solomon doesn’t advise unethical behavior, like giving bribes, he does point out the natural softening that occurs between two angry parties, when one gives gifts to the other. One critical aspect of living wisely is the ability to recognize how human nature works and the foresight to act before a bad situation becomes worse. Consider the most recent argument you’ve had with another person. Did you do something you knew would likely lead to conflict? What might a person of godly wisdom have done to prevent the disagreement?

Read Proverbs 21:20 – 23. This section communicates a theme of planning ahead. Wise people save for the future (v. 20). They pursue righteousness and love and find rewards (v. 21). They knock down barriers that might someday prevent them from moving forward (v. 22). They guard their tongues, to avoid causing future trouble. Is there a goal in your life which you would like to achieve, for which you have done no intentional planning? What keeps you from taking steps to solidify that future?

Read Proverbs 21:24 – 31. These verses speak several times about sins of pride and power. In the end, however, success or failure rests with God. No plans against Him will succeed (v. 30). No victory occurs that He doesn’t allow (v. 31). Have you made any plans that you are fairly certain God would not desire for you? Are you counting on the opportunity to make things right with Him later, after you get what you want?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 20

Two common mistakes are made when we read proverbs: (1) We read the proverbs as God's laws that are always true. (2) Or we confuse them as God’s promises that are reliable guarantees. Solomon's collections are neither inflexible laws nor reliable promises. They are “guidelines” that lead toward wise living on the road of life.

Wise living is like driving on a freeway with multiple exits. To keep us on the Highway of Wisdom, Solomon shares three “dangerous” exits in verses 1-4. Each one has the capacity to get us off at the wrong place.  

#1 - The Danger of ALCOHOL ABUSE: “Wine is a mocker and beer a brawler; whoever is led astray by them is not wise.” (v. 1).  Don’t drink and drive on the road of life. Alcohol abuse kills 75,000 Americans annually. Excessive alcohol is the third leading cause of death. Ephesians 5:18 also warns, “And do not get drunk with wine…but be filled with the Spirit.”  Don’t let alcohol control you. Instead, let the Holy Spirit control every minute, every hour of every day. Seek help from your spouse, a counselor or a close friend about how much you are drinking.

#2 - The Danger of CARELESS ANGER: “It is to one’s honor to avoid strife, but every fool is quick to quarrel.” (v. 3).  Verse 2 equates a king’s anger to the danger of an angry lion. There are two issues with anger: One is seeking to control you own hot-headedness. The second is not provoking it in others. Be a defensive driver. Look out for those whose anger is often out of control. Avoid quarrelsome arguments. They often jeopardize relationships and escalate into hurt feelings. 

#3 – The Danger of POSTPONEMENT: “Sluggards do not plow in season; so at harvest time, they look but find nothing” (v. 4).  You have to harvest the crop when it is ready, not when you feel like working.  Whenever possible, do what you dislike first. Handle the most difficult assignment early. Ecclesiastes 11:4 says, “He who observes the wind will not sow, and he who regards the clouds will not reap.” Procrastination will create anxiety and stress. It almost always keeps us from accomplishing the things we want most completed.

Which of these three “exits” gives you the most trouble? How can surrendering to Jesus keep you on the Highway of Wisdom? Don’t let alcohol abuse, excessive anger or postponing things get you off track. How many other “dangerous” exits can you find in Proverbs 20? 

Proverbs 19

Read Proverbs 19:1 – 9. This section is introduced with three verses describing the contrast between a wise person and a fool. A fool has perverse lips (v. 1). A fool rushes into things (v. 2). A fool rages at God over his own ruin (v. 3). The remaining verses talk about the connection between wealth, power and relationships. Those who have money have many friends. Those who do not, have few or none. Consider the people you would most like to know as friends. How does their economic status compare to yours? Do you desire friendships with those less-well-off than you? Why or why not?

Read Proverbs 19:10 – 14. Verse Ten says, “it is not fitting for a fool to live in luxury – how much worse for a slave to rule over princes.” In Solomon’s culture, individualistic self-reliance was not heralded as a virtue. Educational and vocational opportunities were not offered to all equally. It would have been thought absurd to elevate an uneducated, untrained slave to a position in which he couldn’t hope to succeed. The Bible teaches us that each Christian is equipped in a specific way to serve in the context in which he or she is placed. While we are not locked into any specific role, culturally or theologically, it is unwise to ignore our own position and gifts and instead desire the position and gifts of someone else. Do you ever find yourself wishing you had been gifted in a way you aren’t? What are your gifts? Do you use them?

Read Proverbs 19:15 – 24 . This section is bounded by verses dealing with laziness and sluggards. Most of us think of ourselves as diligent in our work. Some would say, “I am overworked.” When you are “on the clock,” are you always using your time to produce good work for those who employ you? Are your expectations truly in keeping with what you produce or are you expecting others to “spoon-feed” you (v. 24). How can you increase your value to and your witness with those who employ you?

Read Proverbs 19:25 – 29. These verses speak several times about the foolishness of mockery. Our culture prizes clever speech, especially speech that mocks others. In mocking those who prize wisdom, we put ourselves at odds with God. What kind of crowd do you find it most easy to mock? Is there anything in their lifestyle or choices that might constitute godly wisdom?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 18

Centuries after Proverbs 18 was written, James also noted the power of the words that come from our mouth. Some things just don’t change. Today our words and actions still demonstrate what is going on inside. They show our heart.

How often do we say things that are better left unsaid?  Verse 6 reads: “A fool’s lips bring him strife, and his mouth invites a beating.”  While this reminds me of lessons from childhood, it applies throughout life, as we walk through the same lessons over and over again.

Yet far from rebuking others from saying unwise things, have we ever found ourselves somehow delighting in words of gossip? Solomon refers to them as “choice morsels.” The NLT says they “sink deep into one’s heart.” What are we filling our hearts with? Solomon notes in verse 20: “From the fruit of his mouth a man’s stomach is filled; with the harvest from his lips he is satisfied.”  Jesus reaffirmed this truth in noting that it’s not what goes into a man but what is said that makes him unclean.

So many of us try to restrict our intake of calories from time to time. As I considered today’s reading I thought about how much more care I take sometimes with what I put in my real stomach than how I fill my metaphorical one. Maybe I need a different kind of diet?

Of course, we’ve all heard that in the long run diets really don’t work anyway. What we really need is a lifestyle change. Maybe that’s the message today too. We need lives and mouths that glorify God, encourage others, and do no harm. This should not be something we try to do now and then, but it should be part of our being.

What are you feeding on and what do you give others?

Proverbs 17

Today’s wisdom begins with a saying about the value of peace in one’s life, followed by eight random guidelines for a life well lived. Everything seems to be common sense until we reach verse 8: “A bribe is a charm to the one who gives it; wherever he turns, he succeeds.” Is the Bible really teaching that the secret to success is to bribe one’s way through life?

Uhh, not really. This is what is known as an observational proverb. It simple points out that those who give gifts often receive special favors. It is not recommending bribery nor does it attempt to set out guidelines to distinguish a bribe from a legitimate gift. As Pastor Kevin explained last Sunday, some proverbs are statements of general truth as we observe things in this world. They are not guarantees.

Verses 9 – 16 are four collections that have interconnections in their teaching. Repeatedly wisdom is valued over folly. Perhaps the most vivid is in verse 12: “Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs than a fool in his folly.” We immediately recognize the danger of confronting a bear missing her cubs, but do we likewise appreciate the danger of dealing with a fool in his stubbornness? Both want what they want, whatever it takes. Great imagery!

The final verse is likely the source for a saying of today: “Better to be silent and thought a fool, than to open your mouth and confirm it.” Ten of today’s verses deal with things we say and how we say them. As we go forward, let us all resolve to hold our tongue and use words with respect and restraint. If this is a problem area for you, it’s a great topic for prayer.

Proverbs 16

Often times we have great ideas and sometimes even master plans for our lives.  We can pray about things, ask for God’s guidance and still end up following our own path and leaving God out of it.

We can all probably think of a time when we have carefully worked out a plan in great detail even deciding how the future will unfold. But as we learn, things do not go as planned.  Along the way some doors open while others may close. When doors close it is possible that God may have something completely different in mind. There is nothing wrong with planning and having dreams for the future but we must always be ready for God to change the direction along the way.

There are three main verses in Proverbs 16 that teach us how God is the one in complete control.

“We can make our own plans, but the Lord gives the right answer.” (Prov. 16:1)

This verse shows us that we cannot do things solely on our own strength because God is the one who gives us the ability to do all things.  With Him we have the strength to move mountains.

“We can make our plans, but the Lord determines our steps.” (Prov. 16:9)

Regardless of the plans we have or the path we see ourselves on, God needs to be the one directing our steps.  In order for God to guide us we must put our faith in Him completely, no matter the circumstance.

“We may throw the dice, but the Lord determines how they fall.” (Prov. 16:33)

We may be the ones initiating things in various areas of our lives, but God decides if those work or if they fail.

We must put our full faith and trust in Him to lead us through our life.  Ultimately God knows what is good for us and regardless of what path we decide to walk on, He is there to guide and love us along the way.  No matter the storm or celebration we can take comfort in knowing that God is in control.

Proverbs 15

Chapter 15 contrasts goodness and evil, and emphasizes the role of the tongue (verses 1-10) and then of the heart (verses 11-33) in how we experience and live out our lives.  The tongue, however, is not the originator of thoughts and behaviors.  It is the condition of the heart that influences how we will react to our circumstances in thought, word and deed.   The proverb of verse 15 illustrates this well.

“All the days of the oppressed are wretched, but the cheerful heart has a continual feast.”

Our daily lives are never altogether one way or the other---never completely made up of happy circumstances nor of unhappy ones.  Normal human life contains both kinds of experiences.  Sometimes, it may seem that the trials we go through will never end or that the one we are currently going through has brought an end to ever being able to enjoy life again.  The wise King Solomon, even in his own privileged status in life, understood this to be the normal way of things in this fallen world.  But, as one who understood well the value of trusting in God, he also understood that what really matters when the hard times hit is the attitude we have about them.   If we assume that such experiences are completely intolerable, we will become defeated and “oppressed,” or depressed, in spirit.  Look at Naomi, who had lost not only her husband, but also both her sons while living in the land of Moab.  To her townspeople back in Bethlehem she said she had become bitter toward God because of her circumstances.  She said God took the fullness of life away from her (Ruth 1:20-21).  In effect, she was saying she had nothing left to live for. 

On the other hand, Solomon went on to tell us in this proverb that there is another way to look at life’s hard knocks.  We can see that life’s picture is much larger than those momentary afflictions, and there is also much to be thankful for in life, including God’s strengthening involvement with us as we go through those tough times.  The prophet Habakkuk, writing toward the beginning of the 6^th century BC, was perplexed that God had allowed so much wickedness, strife and oppression to exist in Israel, and he complained to God about it.  But, then, he looked at the bigger picture of God’s overall relationship with His people.  He confessed that, even if all the crops should fail, even if there were no livestock left, and there was thus no food for consumption, yet “I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior. The Sovereign LORD is my strength” (Habakkuk 3:17-19).  With such an attitude, despite what hardships might befall, we can still feast on all the good that life does offer.

Proverbs 14

Read Proverbs 14:1 – 7. In this section, we again see several stark contrasts between wise and foolish behavior. Perhaps the most difficult and interesting contrast occurs in Verse Four. Literally, the first phrase reads, “No oxen, a crib of grain.” Paired with the second phrase, we come understand. If one has no oxen, animals used to prepare and harvest a field, no crops can be brought to the manger to feed any animals, including the oxen, but if one has oxen, they produce a return greater than their investment. A modern version of this proverb might be, “It takes money to make money.” When put into context with the passage, it suggests that the wise invest in things which pay off. The foolish expect a return with no investment. Are there areas in your life where you are expecting a return without a significant investment, perhaps in career advancement, parenting, marriage, or in your spiritual life with God? What can you do to invest more?

Read Proverbs 14:8 – 15. Verse Ten, one of five verses in this chapter which speak of the heart, doesn’t follow the usual pattern. Instead of a contrast between good and bad, it simply makes an observation. Although the wise may live in community and may interact in prudent ways with his fellows, he or she still experiences things no one else but God can understand. This verse may serve as a reminder that treating Proverbs like a recipe or formula book doesn’t work, that deep inside we must look to God for the strength to face what we face. Is there an experience you’ve had recently for which you’ve lacked words to explain? Have you privately talked with God about it?

Read Proverbs 14:16 – 27. This section is bounded by verses hailing those who “fear” the Lord. Fear is a word we seldom use in our worship of God. We prefer to talk about his love. Yet, fear is a healthy response to one who not only is responsible for creating us, but judges our thoughts, actions, and hearts. That fear is a “secure fortress” and a “fountain of life,” providing us with confidence to know that we can’t be overcome. It also becomes a refuge for our children. Do you ever think of God as one to be feared? If your children described the God they see you follow, how would they describe Him?

Read Proverbs 14:27 – 35. These verses speak several times of kings and ruling. Do those over whom you have authority see your faith acted out? Why or why not?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 13

To those used to receiving these devotions earlier: I inadvertently stored the file in the wrong location, keeping it from being posted at the usual time. Please accept my apologies if you did not receive it in time for your usual devotion. - Kevin
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Swans frequently visit a certain pond where ducks, geese, and other waterfowl are found.  Yet even in this idyllic setting there is danger. A number of swans have been killed because they didn’t see power lines. Neighbors in the area complained. Soon the power company installed red flags on the lines. Now the swans can see the danger and avoid it. Since the red flags were installed, not a single swan has died.

Proverbs 13 features twenty-five “red flags” installed for our protection. The author states each warning in the form of a contrast. Like yesterday’s proverb, he contrasts the life of the upright with that of the wicked. Each “red flag” encourages us to avoid evil and seek wisdom. All twenty-five are worthy of meditation. But consider these four warnings today:

Verse 1: DON’T IGNORE INSTRUCTION AND REBUKES!  Parental instructions and reprimands aim to warn not control. Wisdom is learning from the mistakes of others. Wise sons learn from others while foolish ones boast of their own independence.

Verse 2: GUARD WHAT YOU SAY! Words can cut and destroy. "The tongue is a flame of fire. It is a whole world of wickedness" (James 3:6). To exercise self-control, begin with your tongue. Stop and think before you speak.

Verse 7: BEWARE OF PRIDE. Humility – even when one is wealthy – is a great virtue. Humility is not thinking less of yourself – but thinking of yourself – less. To have something – and yet treat others with kindness and compassion – displays true wealth.

Verse 13: DON’T DISRESPECT GOD’S WORD. The Bible is God’s unfailing word to us. It is like an owner’s manual for a car. If you obey God’s instructions, you will "run right" and find His power to live. If you ignore His word – you will have breakdowns, accidents, and failures.

Like the swans avoiding the power lines, which of the above “Red Flags” do you need to see? Pick one and spend time in prayer asking God for the wisdom to avoid it today.  

Proverbs 12

Read Proverbs 12:1 – 7. This section contains six two-line proverbs which contrast the behavior of the wicked with the righteous with regard to learning and applying the discipline or instruction of the Lord. The righteous are willing to accept gratefully the correction God provides and, as a result, see longevity in their plans and lives. Sandwiched between these proverbs is one proverb about finding a wife of noble character. What connection, if any, exists between the selection of a wife of noble character and living a righteous life? To what extent do any proverbs stand alone?

Read Proverbs 12:8 – 12. This section tends to focus on the contrast between diligence, both in physical labor and in the pursuit of wisdom, and laziness. The righteous practice prudence, provide for their animals (and by extension, their families), work instead of fantasizing about easy living, and establish a root or foundation rather than envying the gain of others and planning ways to steal it. As such, they are to be praised. The wicked, on the other hand, are to be blamed for their lack of provision. To what extent are we to apply these proverbs to our own lives? To others we know? To those we don’t know within our community? To those we see who are in need?

Read Proverbs 12:13 – 23. This section of Chapter Twelve focuses on speech and silence. After reading these proverbs carefully, do you feel like you demonstrate wise patterns of speech? How do you distinguish between times in which it is necessary to speak up and other times when it is wiser to be silent? Are you a person who quickly expresses annoyance or anger, or are you one who lets insults go by? What could you do to better demonstrate wise speech?

Read Proverbs 12:24 – 28. These verses again summarize the value of diligence over laziness. The section ends with a summary statement promising the way of life and immortality to those who practice righteousness. Do this contradict the idea of grace through faith (Ephesians 2:8 – 9)? Are we ever able to practice true righteousness? How are we able to do that?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 11

Sometimes Proverbs look like timeless bumper stickers that fit today just as when they were penned centuries ago. Today’s verses deal with a variety of situations, from honesty in financial dealings to slander. Solomon was known for both his wisdom and riches. His wisdom puts wealth in perspective in verse 4 where he notes “Wealth is worthless in the day of wrath, but righteousness delivers from death.”

How often do we find our world revolving around money, either chasing it or trying to figure out how to best spend it? Both can be exciting. How fast does the news of the latest great sale at our favorite store rip through our community when the word of righteousness travels at a much slower pace? What are we quick to seek out, then share with others? What do we truly value?

As you read Proverbs 11, you are encouraged to mark a handful of verses that strike your life. Meditate on these verses and ask how God wants them to be lived out in your day-to-day life here in North County. Sometimes we see Scripture as being theoretical or philosophical, but it is so much more. Scripture comes to life as we live it. How much of the wisdom of Proverbs 11 will you live out in the coming week?

Proverbs 10

Read Proverbs 10:1 – 5. This chapter begins a new section of Proverbs. In it, we shift from parents personally warning their sons to a community expressing interrelated ideas and themes about wise living. Each two-line proverb can stand alone and is worthy of individual reflection and consideration, yet each is also influenced by its context, the proverbs which come before and after it, guiding the pathway of our thoughts. These five proverbs each contain a stark contrast, focusing not on immediate consequences, but on end results. As human beings, we tend to ignore our own foolishness or sin and focus instead on those of others. Which proverb catches your attention most? Why? Which one, if you were honest, is most directly applicable to your own life today?

Read Proverbs 10:6 – 21. Verse 10 contains the first proverb in this chapter which speaks not of a contrast between the wise and the fool, but uses both lines to reinforce the warning about foolish behavior. The fact that the second line in this proverb is identical to the second line in Verse Eight suggests that we should pay close attention. A person who “winks maliciously” is engaged in secret and deceptive behavior, known only to his inner circle. He is confident that he is succeeding in his deception and brings grief not only to those he deceives, but to those like family and friends who inadvertently become collateral damage. The connection to a “chattering fool” becomes obvious when we realize that those who are hiding deceptive behavior often talk profusely to cover their nervousness or distract others from the real issue. What issues do you find yourself inclined to “wink” and cover up? What makes you chatter nervously?

Read Proverbs 10:22 – 32. Like Verse 6 in the previous section, Verse 22 promises blessing to those who live by God’s wisdom. Verse 24 states, “What the wicked dread will overtake them.” Is this true? We know people who ignore God and live peaceful lives. The wicked do often have resources for more desirable living conditions, greater entertainment, better health, and fewer financial worries. Yet, underneath the creature comforts is a nagging question, often ignored but still present, “What if this isn’t all there is? What if I have to answer for my choices?” Do you find it hard to believe that the outcomes promised for wisdom and foolishness will really happen? Which warnings do you find hardest to believe, ones about dishonest gain vs. honest wealth, laziness vs. diligence, deception vs. truth, or wholesome vs. unwholesome talk?

Choose one proverb from this chapter, which fits your life today. Memorize it. Read it aloud several times, emphasizing a different word each time. Close your eyes and recite it. Repeat this process several times until you are confident you know it. Pray and ask God to bring it to mind several times today. Recite it mentally each time it occurs to you. At the end of the day, take a moment to consider how it has applied to your life.

Proverbs 9

Read Proverbs 9:1 – 6. Wisdom has built her house and prepares a meal for those willing to respond to her invitation to dine with her. The invitation is addressed to “the simple.” In our culture, simple has several meanings. In one context, it describes intellectual capacity. A simple person can’t grasp difficult concepts. In other contexts, it describes intentional lifestyle choices. A simple person has chosen to do away with complex options in order to reduce distraction. Neither option exactly fits the biblical context of Proverbs. In Proverbs, a simple person has chosen to ignore or reject godly choices and, as a result, lacks the ability to recognize the value of those choices. Wisdom’s invitation makes clear that a simple person must choose between simple ways and life. Not choosing is itself a choice. In which situations do you find yourself refusing to make a choice, in the belief that no choice is an acceptable third way?

Read Proverbs 9:7 – 9. Here, godly wisdom and secular knowledge generally concur. Using wisdom to correct a person who lacks respect for wisdom only leads to further mocking or abuse. However, correcting a wise man with wisdom will, in general, lead to a grateful response and further learning. While we recognize the value of this truth, we often struggle to practice it. We hastily correct a mocker out of a desire to prove to him his error. We fail to correct the godly when she acts unwisely, because we are hesitant to discourage her or bring correction upon ourselves. When you see a lack of wisdom, who are you most likely to correct? Why?

Read Proverbs 9:10 – 12. This section reminds us of what we first read in Proverbs 1:7, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge….” The author here claims that the beginning of true wisdom or knowledge is found in God. Do you believe it is possible to attain wisdom or knowledge without knowing God? If so, what kind of knowledge can you attain? Verse 12 appears to make clear a cause-and-effect relationship between what happens to each person and his or her wisdom choices. Your wisdom will reward you. Your folly will lead to suffering. Is this a universal principle, true in every situation? Read and consider John 9:1 – 3 and Hebrews 11:32 – 40 in light of your answer.

Read Proverbs 9:13 – 18. The woman Folly is now described in contrast to Wisdom. She is loud, undisciplined and without knowledge (v. 13). She calls out to the same people Wisdom tries to reach, but promises different rewards. Her rewards are secret and stolen (v. 17), things which are not meant to be possessed. They lead to spiritual death and perhaps great loss in this life, too. Many of us would like to experience the blessings of God without following His wisdom. Folly appears to offer this path. In which areas do you find yourself looking for shortcuts to blessing? Consider the choices you face today. Ask God for the ability to recognize and follow His wisdom today.

Proverbs 8

Read Proverbs 8:1 – 11. In this chapter, Wisdom is personified as a woman calling out in public places, not unlike the adulterous woman in Chapter 7. Unlike the other woman, Wisdom detests wickedness (v. 7). She calls out to all, but especially seeks the simple and the foolish, those least likely to respond. Her words are just and the discerning man or woman will recognize them as right. How certain are you that you can discern godly wisdom? Do you ever reject the church’s wisdom because it comes from the church? When you have questions about a source of wisdom, how do you confirm its credibility?

Read Proverbs 8:12 – 21. Wisdom promises “riches and honor, enduring wealth and prosperity.” Her fruit is better than gold or silver and she bestows “wealth” on those who love her (v. 18 – 21). What connection, if any, exists between our pursuit of godly wisdom and the acquisition of material wealth, good health and rewarding relationships? If there is a connection, what does it say about those who aren’t experiencing those blessings? If there is not a connection, what is meant by the rewards Wisdom offers? Can you back up your conclusions with Scripture outside of Proverbs?

Read Proverbs 8:22 – 31. Wisdom was present as the first of the Lord’s works. She was present throughout the process of creation. She was a “craftsman at his side” (v. 30). This doesn’t mean that Wisdom is a separate, spiritual being, who predates other created beings and gives away secret knowledge apart from God. Instead, the best way of understanding this passage is to see her as God’s gift of skill and insight, which can be acquired and passed on from generation to generation by those who are discerning and willing to listen to and learn from God, the source. Our culture disregards biblical wisdom as archaic or inapplicable to modern life. Does the idea that Wisdom originates before creation increase its credibility for your present-day circumstances? Why?

Read Proverbs 8:32 – 36. Wisdom promises that those who listen to her instruction will be blessed. She reminds her audience that listening to her must be a daily exercise, one conducted with anticipation (v. 34). She also warns that failure to find her results in harm to oneself (v. 36). Essentially, Wisdom claims two ways exist. (1) Follow her and be blessed. (2) Ignore her and suffer harm. Do you believe these two paths are the only ones that exist? If not, what alternatives are available? Can you support them biblically?

Take a moment to reflect on your own search for wisdom. What kind of wisdom do you most often desire, relational, workplace, financial, medical, or spiritual wisdom? Do you usually search Scripture for that wisdom or do you assume it is best found elsewhere? Why do you search where you do? Ask God to show you the wisdom you need today.